How to be happy always in life?
There is nothing called happiness and sadness in life. Really, its an mask that we wore ourself to show people that we are happy or we are not.
Let me tell you something, look for a 1 year baby and watch what it does for an hour or so. Just watch how much curious the baby is, it keeps on playing with some kind of toys and if any toy is not available, then the baby could play with anything, no hard feelings, it may be stone or a stick. But, but if you take the baby to a store, it sees things and like to get it for himself.
Yes, every ones mind is like a small baby. When you see things around you or when you see something that other have and you do not, you start feeling for it. You start planning for have it, no matter what, you, yourself make a deal to get it. Its normal. However, if you do not get it, then you feel sad.
Just think again, you are making plans, you are feeling for something and you, yourself bringing sadness and feeling losing for it. So, why would you stop feeling for things which screw yor mind?
Every one wish to have a Gellardo, Blackberry, iPhone, iPad, Big Banglow etc. But these are not your aims. These are virtual things, they are not real things, they are addictions. You buy them (if you got money) and you build yourself a world and you die. That's all. You have no skill, no knowledge and nothing in your heart when you leave this world. Only few so called valuable things which belongs to some other persons after you are dead. So, what is the matter of buying them? It of course buy happiness but not permanent happiness. Believe me, they are temporary happiness. If you bought one car today, you plan for other another day and it goes on until you die. All the life you busy saving and buying things.
Guys, I am not a philosopher or something. I was keep thinking on these things and its my opinion. It does not mean that, you should give up and sleep all the day.
Assume that you need a car and you wish to ride it for all your life, then make a plan and work on it. You should not dream about the car all the day. You should not worry or you should not save money by not eating food. That sucks. Enjoy every moment of your life and do not spend much money for shit things and save it and one day you can make your wish come true.
Living life is not an art, not at all. You should not get coaching for how to live your life. Live it as you wish, but do not make mistakes which hurts you most! Dreams are very good to reach your aims. However, do not dream when you are asleep, dream when you awake, that works most of the time. Also, do not dream all the day.
In my point of view, this life is just a library with lots of knowledge, we need to concentrate on learning not by reading but by living. Every negative or positive thing that happens in your life, teaches you a new lesson. You must face them and grab all the knowledge and you can leave the world as perfect soul.
Happiness is state of your mind. No one can put happiness on your mind or take it back. You have control on it and you can keep your mind status as 'HAPPY' :) If you believe something brings you happiness, then its dependency and not happiness.
Last bust not least:
Leave all your things such as mobile, wallet etc etc and go to the roof and watch the sky at night alone. You feel happy but from nothing. Just ask questions to the stars, they will laugh at you and they may answer you by putting thoughts on your mind. :)
There is nothing called happiness and sadness in life. Really, its an mask that we wore ourself to show people that we are happy or we are not.
Let me tell you something, look for a 1 year baby and watch what it does for an hour or so. Just watch how much curious the baby is, it keeps on playing with some kind of toys and if any toy is not available, then the baby could play with anything, no hard feelings, it may be stone or a stick. But, but if you take the baby to a store, it sees things and like to get it for himself.
Yes, every ones mind is like a small baby. When you see things around you or when you see something that other have and you do not, you start feeling for it. You start planning for have it, no matter what, you, yourself make a deal to get it. Its normal. However, if you do not get it, then you feel sad.
Just think again, you are making plans, you are feeling for something and you, yourself bringing sadness and feeling losing for it. So, why would you stop feeling for things which screw yor mind?
Every one wish to have a Gellardo, Blackberry, iPhone, iPad, Big Banglow etc. But these are not your aims. These are virtual things, they are not real things, they are addictions. You buy them (if you got money) and you build yourself a world and you die. That's all. You have no skill, no knowledge and nothing in your heart when you leave this world. Only few so called valuable things which belongs to some other persons after you are dead. So, what is the matter of buying them? It of course buy happiness but not permanent happiness. Believe me, they are temporary happiness. If you bought one car today, you plan for other another day and it goes on until you die. All the life you busy saving and buying things.
Guys, I am not a philosopher or something. I was keep thinking on these things and its my opinion. It does not mean that, you should give up and sleep all the day.
Assume that you need a car and you wish to ride it for all your life, then make a plan and work on it. You should not dream about the car all the day. You should not worry or you should not save money by not eating food. That sucks. Enjoy every moment of your life and do not spend much money for shit things and save it and one day you can make your wish come true.
Living life is not an art, not at all. You should not get coaching for how to live your life. Live it as you wish, but do not make mistakes which hurts you most! Dreams are very good to reach your aims. However, do not dream when you are asleep, dream when you awake, that works most of the time. Also, do not dream all the day.
In my point of view, this life is just a library with lots of knowledge, we need to concentrate on learning not by reading but by living. Every negative or positive thing that happens in your life, teaches you a new lesson. You must face them and grab all the knowledge and you can leave the world as perfect soul.
Happiness is state of your mind. No one can put happiness on your mind or take it back. You have control on it and you can keep your mind status as 'HAPPY' :) If you believe something brings you happiness, then its dependency and not happiness.
Last bust not least:
Leave all your things such as mobile, wallet etc etc and go to the roof and watch the sky at night alone. You feel happy but from nothing. Just ask questions to the stars, they will laugh at you and they may answer you by putting thoughts on your mind. :)
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